You Just Don't Understand: Women And Men In Con... -

Tannen categorizes communication into two primary styles based on the underlying goals of the speaker.

Deborah Tannen’s You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation is a seminal work in sociolinguistics that explores how gender affects communication. Published in 1990, it argues that men and women grow up in "different worlds," leading to distinct conversational styles—or "genderlects"—that often result in deep-seated misunderstandings. 🗣️ The Core Concept: Rapport vs. Report You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Con...